Having children
later is some good points and someone do so. However, personally I think it is
better to having children earlier. I’d like to mention some reasons.
One main reason
for supporting my idea is age gap. If parents are old, they have less options
to do something with their children. For example, when children want to play something
sport with their old parents, the old parents may not play well because of
their age. In my experience, my father is older as a father, he is 64 and I’m
22 now. It’s a big age gap. When I was a little, I asked my father to play
baseball, but he didn’t. He had to work and he couldn’t play well because of
his age. I was very sad. If he had been younger, I could have play with him a
lot. Since then, I want to be a younger father and play with my children. But
in my case, I could mature thanks to my old father, now he and I have really
good relationship like brothers finally.
Another important
point is parents can spend valuable time after their children have been grown.
There are some reason that I claim the point. First, these parents have more
money and time than when they are younger. So they could spend money what they
want to do. For example, my one uncle and aunt raised their children earlier in
their life. They’ve almost finished raising children. Now they travel around
the world, Europe, California, NYC, Seattle, and sometimes they join a big
cruising for 100days. Also, they travel somewhere with their children. Does it
have a problem? The answer is no, the trip is going to be more fun with the matured
children. It is also valuable time for the parents. In addition, I have heard a
speech which I agree with. The speaker said, “Older women have a risk to be a pregnant.
I know they could be and medical care is developing, but women still may have a
risk. However studying something older has a risk? I don’t think so. Of course elderly
are not good at memorizing, but it has less risk than having children older.”
Personally, I believe it is not only women, men too. Both parents should have
children in their life earlier.
On the contrary, I
couldn’t support a point is money. Raising children is required a lot of money.
This point force parents to earn more money. I can understand raising children
is not only money. But, it’s better to have more money raise children. I have
seen some parents gave up to have a several children because of money. They
really want to more than one children, but they don’t have confidence to give
them enough education. From the situation money is important factor.
In
conclusion, I believe that I think it is better to having children earlier from
these reasons.
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