It is better to have children later in life-Tzu Chin

Here are three main benefits of having children in life: mental, stability and free time. First of all, when people are getting older, their mental will become more mature. It is very important for children because if their parents can’t control emotion well, their parents probably will case them to have a diseased personality. Second, when people are getting older, their life will become more stable. It is difficult for parents to raise their child without enough money. According to CNN, parents average coast $245,000 to raise a child. No matter spend money on  food, cloth, or education, sometimes even their medical fees. There is an old saying: Money doesn’t mean anything, but if you don’t have money, you can’t do anything. Same as raise children, if parents don’t have enough money, they can’t give their child a better life. So why not just wait until people sure that they can give their children a good environment?

Moreover, if parents have baby later in their life, they can have much free time to do and try anything they want. For example, they can go travel or go study without any family consideration. Also in this process, they can get more life experiences and widen their views, in this way, they will become more confident of themselves. Some people think that they can have child early and after their children grow up, they also have time to do what they want to do. However, I think no matter how old children are, parents always worry about them, it is nature. And the other point that I disagree with this is that when people getting older, they don’t have as much strength to do many things as young. So in my opinion, I think it is better to achieve our goal before have a child.

   In the other hand, some people believe having children early in life has a positive effect on the relationship between parents and children. That is to say, if parents have children early, they can reduce the age gap. Nevertheless, today is an information explosion generation, no matter how old the parents are, they still can get a lot of knowledge, trends even slang from media or their friends. So I don’t think that parents will have age gap with their children nowadays. Take my parents as an example, they know the newest slang which is popular in university student by the Internet. By the way, my parents born me when they are 30.